A child custody hearing is typically held when one parent or parents are charged with parenting the child. It determines who will be the main caretaker of the child and where that person will live while conducting the hearing.
The hearing can be open or closed, and it can be in-person or online. It is typically conducted by a judge or other legal figure, but there are also lawyers who can serve as witnesses for the parents.
Many parents do not get a chance to meet their children in advance of the hearing, which is unfortunate. Being able to describe and explain what kind of children they have and what they look like can help ease any stress during the hearing.
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Bring any evidence or documents you may have to support your case
At the child custody hearing, the parent or parents must bring any evidence or documents they have to support their case.
These may be photos, videos, documents, or anything else that supports their case for parenting ability or support for the other parent. It is important to have these at the hearing so the other parent can respond in support of their claim.
It is very important that you do not leave behind any evidence at the hearing as it may be necessary to present at a later date. Having this evidence at the original hearing can help prove yourcase at the next stage of court proceedings!
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Consider hiring a lawyer for your child custody hearing
Even without a child custody hearing, by understanding what to expect at a hearing, whether for visitation or primary custody, you can maximize your satisfaction and minimize any stress in your family.
Many times during the course of a child custody hearing, particular points of discussion will be made about parenting skills and strategies. These include discussing how the parents have worked with others before and if they are confident in their ability to raise their children, as well as what kind of home environment they want for their children.
Another point of discussion may be reviewing past attempts at parenting and determining whether there were reasons for separations or changes in parenting. It is important to review this part of the meeting to determine if there are any new factors that may need to be reviewed.
Last but not least, reviewing any reports or reports from social services or court can help determine if changes in family composition or changes in family environment have not affected the previous arrangement and led to a change in care.
Answer truthfully any questions the judge may have
It’s important to be honest and straightforward during a child custody hearing. If the other party has any questions, they should be honest about those questions.
If the other party lies or avoids answering questions, it may be time to look at other options. For example, if one parent is not working and the other parent needs to care for the children while the other parent works and doesn’t live with the children, there may be a need for joint custody.
As with any court hearing, be prepared to answer questions. You will want to answer many of them during the process, so do your best to answer truthfully. If you have additional notes or documents that can help in this response, send them in ahead of time so they are properly covered.
Pay attention to what your ex-partner is saying
At the hearing, your ex is likely to present his or her side of the story. This can be helpful if you are not sure what happened or if you are not listening to what they are saying.
It is also important to listen to what your child has said. Children can be difficult to explain, but if they understand the situation, they will be happy about it.
Children may say things that are unrelated to the custody hearing, but parents should always listen. If a child says something important was happening to them, the other party may take notice and try to stop what they were doing in order to protect them.
If a parent does not want their child involved in a happening, the parent should avoid being too loud, being too close, or being overly affectionate. Make sure everyone is respectful of each person’s needs.
Child custody hearings are usually recorded
They are usually recorded and can be accessed via the court system’s website, by anyone with internet access, or through a live broadcast.
The hearing can be difficult for both sides to go over basic information such as who is the child’s older and younger relatives, what each person’s responsibilities are during visitation, and what if time-remapping devices are used.
It is critical that each party fully understands their responsibilities and makes a plan of action if there is a change in custody or visitation.
General questions that may be asked include: What kind of playtime or learning tasks does the child need to accomplish during supervised visits? How many years will it take for them to reach an adequate level of independence? What kinds of activities does the child enjoy most?
These questions should be answered fully and honestly by both parties. It also helps to have answers made prior to the meeting so as to not answer any questions later on.
A guardian ad litem may be present
A guardian ad litem may be present at a child custody hearing to help the parent or parents understand the child’s situation. The role includes helping the parent or parents understand their legal rights and responsibilities as well as providing emotional support.
This person does not act as a counselor, but rather serves as an empathetic ears to help the parent or parents understand what is happening and how they can help.
At the hearing, the guardian ad litem gives general information about the child, explains any relevant facts about the child and family, and describes possible future scenarios for the child.
General information may include things such as why one person gets custody of children and what situations require additional care. A general fact may be that children can go anywhere for 2 days before they need someone to take care of them.
The judge will make a decision based on the testimony of the parents and any evidence presented
The hearing will last about an hour, and the judge will ask you to stay until the end to answer questions and make comments.
When your child is less than a year old, it is at its most vulnerable time. It is important that the parents know their child well so that they can appropriately handle any changes in care.
It is very important that the parent who has custody of your child knows him or her well so that appropriate contact can be made and court orders are followed. You can expect to spend some time going back and forth on phone calls, emails, and face-to-face meetings with your child.
During this hearing, the judge will decide if he or she believes one parent is able to care for their child adequately and continuously. If the parent who has custody of your child shows signs of being able to care for them, then he or she will give them more time to prove it through hard evidence at court.
If you have new information, you can ask to amend the original petition
If you have new information, you can ask to amend the original petition. This is called adding a new reason to petition for custody.
In addition to the new information, your new reason must be verified by a third party and presented at the hearing. A third party could be a family member, social services professional, or legal representative.
The majority of time at a custody hearing is spent discussing information from previous child custody hearings. What was learned from previous hearings, what was forgotten, and what new information needs to be reviewed.
It is common for children who are involved in a court case to develop suspicions and rumors about who they are going to live with and who they are going to meet with. These rumors and effects on self-esteem can affect how they deal with the hearing.